As we celebrate Valentine’s Day, we often associate it with romantic love, chocolates, and flowers. However, the true meaning of Valentine’s Day is rooted in the Latin word “valentia,” which means “strength.” In this article, we will explore how Valentine’s Day can be a day to strengthen the meek, the depressed, and those who feel neglected.
Valentine’s Day, holiday (February 14) when lovers express their affection with greetings and gifts. Given their similarities, it has been suggested that the holiday has origins in the Roman festival of Lupercalia, held in mid-February. The festival, which celebrated the coming of spring, included fertility rites and the pairing off of women with men by lottery. At the end of the 5th century, Pope Gelasius I forbid the celebration of Lupercalia and is sometimes attributed with replacing it with St. Valentine’s Day, but the true origin of the holiday is vague at best.
According to Socrates, “The unexamined life is not worth living.” As we reflect on our relationships and social lives, we must acknowledge the pain and trauma caused by neglecting others. Samuel Mbiti, an African philosopher, emphasizes the importance of community and relationships in African culture. He states, “I am because we are, and since we are, therefore I am.” This philosophy highlights the interconnectedness of human beings and the need to prioritize relationships and community.
The Bible also emphasizes the importance of love and relationships. In 1 Corinthians 13:13, it states, “And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.” This verse reminds us that love is the greatest virtue, and it is essential to prioritize love and relationships in our lives.
Valentine’s Day should not be solely focused on romantic love; rather, it should be a day to express love and appreciation for all relationships, including friendships and family. As the Bible states, “Love each other as I have loved you” (John 15:12). This verse encourages us to love others selflessly and unconditionally.
In a world where communities are losing hope and living in hopelessness, Valentine’s Day can be a day to reignite hope and strength. As Pope Francis states, “Hope is the virtue that inspires us to look to the future with optimism and confidence.” This year’s Jubilee of Hope reminds us that hope is rooted in the power of the Holy Spirit.
Through the Gift of the Holy Spirit of Fortitude, we can find supernatural courage in times of weakness. As 2 Corinthians 12:9 states, “My power is made perfect in weakness.” This verse reminds us that God’s strength is made perfect in our weakness, and we can trust in His power to carry us through challenging times.
God’s strength is made perfect in weakness. In 2 Corinthians 12:8-9, Paul asked Jesus to remove a thorn. Instead of removing the thorn, Jesus pointed Paul to Himself. “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.”
When we experience challenging times, it’s good to look to Christ’s teachings. One of the joys of my knee adventures is that I stayed at the Mother Angeline McCrory Manor in Columbus. There I had 24-hour access to the chapel. What would be more beneficial is lifting our eyes to our Triune God and receiving Him in daily communion. Conversations with the sisters were bonuses!
When we are weak, He is strong. We are all frail and needy. However, we serve a God Who is not dependent on our abilities. He is the Creator and Sustainer of all things. When we trust in Him, He generously provides all that we need.
Sem. Robert Bigabwarugaba
robertbigabwarugaba@gmail.com
St Paul’s National Seminary – Kinyamasika
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