By Faridah Nakazibwe
Beautiful ladies, let me let you in on something. When a man is married to you or gets into a relationship with you, his desire to sleep with other women does not change. That desire, stays the same. What changes are three things; the LEVEL of that desire, his RESPONSE to that desire, and his WILLINGNESS to satisfy that desire
Now the three, the LEVEL , the RESPONSE, and the WILLINGNESS to satisfy that desire are determined by his MORAL compass and his COMMITMENT to you. Notice, i didnt say they are decided by his “love for you”. Love has nothing to do with it. A man may love you and still sleep with other women. That he loves you is not enough to keep a man from cheating.
What keeps a man from cheating , what reduces the LEVEL of his desire to sleep with other women, what controls his RESPONSE and what reduces his willingness to satisfy his desire for other women is, first, his MORAL CODE; his spirituality; the moral values he subscribes to; his vow to God to stay faithful. And, secondly, his COMMITMENT to you. The vow he made to himself to remain committed to you and you alone.
A man without a moral compass and without a commitment is a rabid dog. He will sleep with anything that has legs.
The bigger question you should always ask yourself isn’t “how much money does he make?”. The bigger question is “would he make a loving husband?”. You can turn a loving husband into a millionaire, you can never turn a cheating millionaire into a loving husband.
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