Miss Uganda 2008 Dorah Mwima has rubbished her husband’s ex, saying she and Nader Barrak are in love now, more than ever.
In a lengthy facebook post, Mwima also attacks blogger Ritah Kaggwa for her continuous interest in her life.
Barrak’s ex in question is Elizabeth Kabahuma aka Berth Nash now known us Elizabeth Rigon.
According to Mwima, Elizabeth, also Barrak’s baby mama has continuously felt sad Ethan and Gaby (Barrak and Mwima’s children) are going to ‘more expensive’ schools than that of her son.
She writes: “Let’s get this right. There is a court order that was passed in 2013 before we got married and we have been paying according to it. The court said, ‘to agree on a school’, which, some the years ago, we agreed on a school budget (Shs2 million a year or 650k by term) and she went ahead and chose a school accordingly!”
“What happened now? Baby mama felt jealous that Ethan and Gaby are going to ‘more expensive’ schools!! No I am not kidding! That’s what the drama is all about. She communicated through her lawyers after changing the school without my husband’s knowledge or approval and asking my husband to pay for everything, which he refused because ‘a child is a shared/mutual responsibility’ and until now he has been paying his part. So yes the issue here, which by the way has changed from “she stole my man’ (mind you, he was single for two years before we got engaged) to ‘your husband is not paying school fees’…
The Barrak family
Here is the full writeup
BREAKING NEWS: THIS IS A COMMERCIAL BREAK FROM OUR POSITIVE MARRIAGE AFFIRMATIONS
Sponsored by: Nader Barrak
Dear Ritah Kaggwa, thank you for your continuous interest in our life, we knew from yesterday the comments will end up on your page, the same way we knew you would be posting bullshit about Ethan’s story… anyway, just to cut your story short… AGAIN!
For a long time now I have been ignoring your dear friend Elizabeth Kabahuma aka Berth Nash now known us Elizabeth Rigon.
Since the day my husband and I got engaged, we have been receiving nothing but hell on earth from her and her gang of close friends.
She has called me a ‘slut’ ‘bitch’ ‘cancerous’ ‘drunk’ ‘brat’ ‘devil’ ‘witch’, cursed my womb, called my dear Ethan a ‘bastard child’ along with his siblings, cursed our parents and called them all kind of names, abused my husband’s race and origin, opened up fake social media accounts to post rubbish about me and my husband and fed tabloids with the best of rumors.
Now, am a woman of positive vibes and I will try my best to keep it this way especially when someone is always pushing my buttons but it reaches a point where you say “enough is enough”, this is getting out of hand and you can’t continue to remain silent!
Just yesterday, someone shared our family picture in some group. People were commenting about our family then all of a sudden, a comment came out of nowhere accusing my husband of not paying school fees/child support.
By now we are used to such comments coming from her close friends or some fake accounts to always try to tarnish our names, that’s why last time I came and confessed about Ethan’s father before they cooked up their fake stories (now you know who was behind that fake account), in Ethan’s case they even called some TV station under a name of some Sarah Mbabazi, a name I have never heard of in my entire life, claiming to be my friend just to try to create fake stories…yes, they can really go to that extent.
The problem with the comment of yesterday:
We actually do pay the school fees and I will say ‘we’ because even on that, we share responsibilities! The same way he takes care of my son, I will take care of his son with no apologies or regrets!!!
Let’s get this right, there is a court order that was passed in 2013 before we got married and we have been paying according to it! The court said, ‘to agree on a school’, which, some 3 years ago, we agreed on a school budget (2 million a year or 650k by term) and she went ahead and chose a school accordingly!
What happened now? Baby mama felt jealous that Ethan and Gaby are going to “more expensive” schools!! No am not kidding!!! That’s what the drama is all about! She communicated through her lawyers after changing the school without my husband’s knowledge or approval and asking my husband to pay for everything, which he refused because “a child is a shared/mutual responsibility” and until now he has been paying his part.
So yes the issue here, which by the way has changed from ‘she stole my man’ (mind you, he was single for two years before we got engaged) to ‘your husband is not paying school fees’…
There was recently a court ruling where hubby asked the court to reduce the monthly maintenance since our family is now bigger and our expenses are more, the court granted him the request, he also asked for joint custody so the boy can spend time with his siblings, but the baby mama (Dear Ritah why are you hiding your friend’s name btw?) refused categorically and the court ruled in her favor. Imagine for a minute, the baby mama refusing the dad a joint custody but wants him to pay everything!
Anyway, mama baby wasn’t happy that the maintenance was reduced and is now trying to appeal because you know! MONEY!!! Money has become a big issue for her and although she is now married to an American national who is supposed to take good care of her as she deserves, here we are, whining on social media about why our kids go to better schools than hers and making it seem like it is a war between her and me!
We don’t expect positive vibes all the time as a family because in the end we are all human beings and we come short of being perfect but when there are negative vibes posted about us that we know are not true and are trying to tear our family apart, trust the Barraks to put on their boxing gloves as a couple and fight together for each other and this is why we will be in each other’s business till death do us part. So better get used to it Ritah and Co. we are not your ‘ordinary couple’!
And this is to you my dear Elizabeth, I know you are reading this…
It has been six years and I am still married to your ex. Stop crying over spilled milk yet you claim to be happily married. I know it hurts seeing me happy with him and God continuously blessing my family despite all that you have tried to do to tear us apart.
Honestly speaking, you need to get over the hurt, we all have been there before. We all have ex’es that have dumped us, some have even done worse than just dumping us but we slowly learn how to move on without them…IN PEACE!
Your son is getting school fees, medical insurance and monthly maintenance.
Do you know what that means to other baby mamas? Ask me, I have been there, and as am writing this I am tearing and remembering one evening in my single bedroom house in Bweyogerere, licking on glucose for dinner cause it was the only thing I had in my house. I looked at my Ethan not knowing where our next meal will come from and I just wanted to kill myself.
Nadeer and Mwima during their wedding
It’s my prayer you never get to face this kind of lack because you are simply being very ungrateful! You are not the first and won’t be the last baby mama on this planet!
I just wish you handled this situation differently than the way you are because an innocent boy is getting caught up in this drama. You are not protecting his face and name and as a mother this should be your first responsibility, instead you use him publicly to fight your baby daddy and gain sympathizers.
Imagine when he grows up and reads all this shit you are doing and saying about his father? Do you really get to think about that future? And how do you even expect to get any respect from my husband when you continue doing this to him?
Well, I guess you didn’t date him long enough to know how stubborn he is (ask me who is married to him lol)
You are now afraid to attack me directly because you went to prison for threatening violence in 2013 and you are afraid I might re-open that case. I get it, but it is really childish to now send your friends and open fake accounts to try and attack us!
From day one I have hustled to see the people in my family smile. I continue to hustle all day long so I can help my husband in paying our bills! YES we SHARE the school fees!! You can’t expect my husband to pay all your bills when you don’t want to work, hustle or pay a single shilling!!
That’s not me talking! That’s the law talking! If you have decided to appeal and go back to court because you lost the last case and not happy with the ruling, why are you then parading your hustle all over social media? You will not pressure us on anything! This is not how you are going to get justice. You are making this relationship harder, yet this is when our kids should be bounding and getting to know each other.
Finally my dear Elizabeth, I publicly and humbly ask you to please leave us alone, we don’t want anything from you, we really wish you well, we really were so happy when you got married, we thought now you will finally move on, we really wish your marriage to work, we wish that you give your husband some babies so you leave our babies alone!
Honestly speaking, from the bottom of our hearts, we wish you and your family nothing but the best!!!
